The Currency of Real Networking is not Greed but Generosity
Interpersonal skills are considered soft skills essential to building and maintaining positive relationships. Networking uses fundamental soft skills such as good communication, interpersonal skills, positive thinking, and empathy.
Most people understand that motivation is an interpersonal skill needed to build and work with a network. However, the motive behind motivation needs to be clarified because the motive is the stimulus to action. In order to be effective, motivation has to come from something deeper than a feeling: it has to come from a motive. A motive is what is inside a person that leads them to pursue a specific outcome. It is important to consider that everyone has different expectations that fuel motives.
If those in your network have agreed to be a network contact with you, either verbally or just implied through your association, they will eventually feel that you’re motivated. If you only intend to seek answers and get advice in your network and have no interest in another person as an individual, that becomes a conflicting motive. Networking is a two-way street, and you need to care about those people in your network. People seeking answers through networking find many things that they may not be interested in but would interest those inside their network.
Greedy people trigger feelings of there not being enough for everyone. Generosity is triggered by focusing outward and requires seeing what others need and freely giving without expecting anything in return.
Being generous is contagious and makes us feel good and better at making those around us feel good.
Networking With a Purpose is Needed to Confirm Authenticity →
Soft skills such as interpersonal abilities are essential for building and maintaining positive relationships. Networking, an integral part of the workspace, involves multiple soft skills, including effective communication, positive thinking, empathy, and interpersonal skills.
People motivated by greed often make others feel like there is not enough to go around. Soft skills such as interpersonal abilities are essential for building and maintaining positive relationships.
Networking, an integral part of the workspace, involves multiple soft skills, including effective communication, positive thinking, empathy, and interpersonal skills.
If the purpose of networking is shared and likewise if the networker shares back what is learned, it confirms the authenticity of the contact.
People motivated by greed often make others feel like there is not enough to go around.
Networking With a Purpose: The Informational Interview, Its Use, and Why it is a Valuable Tool →
Author Brent M.Jones’s book: Networking with a Purpose
Reviewed in the United States on August 5, 2023
5.0 out of 5 Stars “Unlocks the potential for your future”
This book offers invaluable insights for career changers facing the challenge of finding new opportunities. The book highlights the power of informational interviews, an underrated tool in the job market. Job seekers can build a strong network and gain a competitive edge with a step-by-step guide and sample questions. The strategies presented in the book go beyond landing a job and providing long-term career success. Don't wait until you're out of work to nurture your network; start informational networking now and unlock its potential for your future.
Reviewed in the United States on March 10, 2023
5.0 out of 5 stars A Must-Have Book When Looking For New Opportunities!
“Networking with a Purpose: The Informational Interview is the book everyone looking for a job needs. Jones explains that many hiring managers love to hire from within or hire people recommended to them by someone they trust. In these situations, these jobs rarely reach the posting stage. So, how do you land one? That’s where the informational interview and networking come into play. Jones gives excellent, practical advice to help you get into the industries you want and get one step closer to landing your dream job.
Jones’s writing is fantastic. It is so easy to read. He does a fantastic job explaining things and providing relatable examples. Every college or high school grad looking to enter the workforce must read this book. Learning to network appropriately will give them a leg up in the job market.”
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