Add Passionate Positivity to Desires to Bring Success

If your goal is to improve, then adding more positivity to your goal can be achieved by:

"Be passionate about improving. Be passionate about helping others. Listen to your feelings”.

The Website “Brent M. Jones: Connected Events Matter” recently added these goals to the Home Page because they sum up the ideas of Personal Reinvention, Self-Improvement, and Finding Inspiration to become a better person. 

Things change once you embrace your goals with passion. Goals change your direction, and that changes who you are. Even if you start late in life, the change in plans will give you a different perspective when you look back. You will be able to see what you have accomplished, enabling you to see yourself differently. 

This thought from Brent M. Jones's book Finding the Best Version of Ourselves: The Interview of Self brings needed perspective to the improvement goal.

“First, You Are Human. We aren't broken any more than that. We are complete, intricate beings, each with our unique blend of strengths, vulnerabilities, and growth potential. Acknowledging that your journey will never be complete can free you from feeling overwhelmed with your perceived place in this world and the road ahead. This realization is a source of liberation, permitting you to embrace the continuous process of self-discovery and improvement without the weight of unrealistic expectations.”

This thought from the book Interviewing Yourself and Asking the Right Questions by Brent M. Jones also helps us see the starting point for personal change.

“If you want to change your life, start with your thoughts. It’s common to want to change but struggle to break out of familiar patterns leading to the same results.”

Passion is contagious and makes people want to say “yes” to us. It makes us want to say yes to ourselves.  Passion is more than desire; often, desire alone is not enough. Desire is general, and part of our outlook may lack power. It's about wanting something more and better for ourselves and our family. Passion is specific and can be developed. It's exciting how we get that better focus on desire. It brings enthusiasm about what that more and better is. Passion and desire go hand in hand, especially as a motivation.

The old saying “Be careful what you wish for” is essential when adding passion to desires. The combination works even when your desires are harmful, so make sure your desires and goals lead to improvement. Passion is going to take you somewhere.



What A Wonderful World - The Beauty of the World is Still in Place

What A Wonderful World

Lyric’s by Louis Armstong

 

I see trees of green
Red roses too
I see them bloom
For me and you
And I think to myself
What a wonderful world

I see skies of blue
And clouds of white
The bright blessed day
The dark sacred night
And I think to myself
What a wonderful world

The colors of the rainbow
So pretty in the sky
Are also on the faces
Of people going by
I see friends shaking hands
Saying, "How do you do?"
They're really saying
"I love you"

I hear babies cry
I watch them grow
They'll learn much more
Than I'll never know
And I think to myself
What a wonderful world

Yes, I think to myself
What a wonderful world

Oh yeah

The beauty of the world is still in place. The seasons pass and then come again all bringing their own wonder. Grief comes but it also eventually goes and we continue to ‘wonder” at the majesty of the earth.

The Red Balloon tells us there are Good Times Ahead or maybe Monsters are Coming?

Balloons have been symbols of different styles, genres, and even eras. The image creates hope, imagination, and wonder. They are full of hope and joy and bring happiness and lighten sorrow. We feel a sense of freedom as we see them floating in the sky. Red balloons take positive suggestions and blend the various emotions associated with red. Anger, rage, vigor, aggression, courage, war, and strength all can add metaphor to the meaning. Red often adds passionate emotion.

If a clown holds a red balloon, we get the metaphors of the clown added and might think of Stephen King's movie "It.”

The movie’s red balloon is ominous and terrifying. Stephen King’s Pennywise in the film “It” uses red balloons to lure children to death.

Does this mean red balloons are good unless a clown is holding them?

Becoming our best self requires that we start early, but even starting late is important.

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"Be passionate about improving. Be passionate about helping others. Listen to your feelings”. If these thoughts are your goals, you’re on the right track and going in the right direction. The Website “Brent M. Jones: Connected Events Matter” recently added these goals to the Home Page because they sum up the ideas of Personal Reinvention, Self Improvement, and Finding Inspiration to become a better person.

Things change once your embrace these thoughts as goals. Goals change your direction, and that changes who you are. Even if you start late in life, the change in plans will give you a different perspective when you look back, and you will see yourself differently.

Teaching young people to believe in themselves and see the good in things is essential. Success in life comes from understanding and practicing correct principles.



Was Ayn Rand right: Is self interest always rational?

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Recently, in a casual conversation, the person I was talking with mentioned liking the books written by Ayn Rand and quoted the following statement from this author:

“The rational pursuit of selfish gain on the part of each individual must give rise to the ideal form of society.”.

This comment appeals to many people and attracts some severe readers to her books. The problem with the statement is the lack of clarity on what “ rational “ means. 

Ayn Rand loved the idea of pursuing selfish gain in a free market, and since the marketplace was free, if some didn’t succeed, then that was too bad. She even added that they might have deserved success, perhaps making some judgment as to the efforts.

Does this open a question as to whether the judgment of others is rational? Is it reasonable to assume that those who have the most will be the most successful in the marketplace and that the only thing required is for those well-healed hedonists to casually acknowledge that those who weren’t might have deserved success?

With her Russian background, she ought to have understood that marketplaces are never free—successful people block the path for others. 

"The moral purpose of a man’s life is the achievement of his happiness."—Ayn Rand.

The flaw in this logic is letting self-interest be pronounced ok and taking the idea of selfishness along with it. When a person, action, or motive lacks consideration for others and is only concerned chiefly with one's profit or pleasure, it is at odds with genuine self-interest and is a poor philosophy.

 

Is Now Better Than Then?

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Of course, if you do it now, it is done, but if you do it then, you will have to wait to do it. “Now” is proactive, and a do-it-now attitude is generally considered a positive trait.

On the other hand: Pondering “Now vs. Then” is a battle already lost. “Then” wins when you ponder or prioritize.

At least when you prioritize, instead of pondering a few objectives, get it done first. “Now” is proactive, and a do-it-now attitude is generally considered a positive trait.

I used to want to be somebody. Now I want to remember who I am.

I used to love positive thinking books. Now I see how enjoyable people are when they are not harmful.

I used to wonder how I would ever pick one favorite color. Now I see the color of the sky and the mountains, and all that grows is enough.

I used to look for who was right and wrong when elections came. Now I hope to see who is willing to ask what is right and wrong.

I used to think that accomplishments were necessary to validate my efforts. Now I hope those I care for a will, in their actions, look for right and wrong and what is positive.

I used to hope for more blessings. Now I can't count all that I have had.

I used to try to say more when more needed to be said. Now I hope I can say less.

I used to hope to know and learn more. Now I hope to remember what I already know.

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What else do we do know, now that were here?

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The good news is that perhaps because of the sign, you know you’re not lost. The even better news is that you know where you are because wherever you are, you can truthfully and confidently say that ”you are here.”

Even more important is that you are also right here reading this, right now. Now is always the best time to focus your attention.

“Today is all you have. Don't worry about tomorrow. Just do the best you can right now.”

Maybe you are not lost but only feel lost? What does feeling lost mean? It could mean that you are just unsure of yourself. The feelings could be confirmed physically, socially, or emotionally.

Feeling lost could be a good thing. You have realized that where you have been and what you have been doing is not what you want because you have started to change how you think- a sign of growth. Just permitting yourself to question what you want today can be good but also open you up to feeling lost with what you must leave behind.

“Today is all you have. Don't worry about tomorrow. Just do the best you can right now.”

For more about Now, see the post “Is Now Better than Then.”

Is the song, "Blowin in the Wind", Literature, Poetry, a new Art Form, or just Lyrics

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The Noble Prize for literature in 2016 was awarded to Bob Dylan for "having created new poetic expression within the great American song tradition.”

Is "Blowin’ in the Wind" literature?
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Harpers Magazine says that “literary means not only what is written but what is voiced, what is expressed, what is invented, in whatever form.” More restrictively, writing is considered an art form or any report deemed to have artistic or intellectual value, often due to deploying language in ways that differ from ordinary usage.

What do the words, Blowin’ in the Wind, mean? Bob Dylan said the answer is blowing in the wind because nobody knows the answer. Everybody tries to get it, but it slips away from our hold.



"Blowin in the Wind" by Bob Dylan

How many roads must a man walk down
Before you call him a man?
How many seas must a white dove sail
Before she sleeps in the sand?
Yes, and how many times must the cannonballs fly
Before they're forever banned?

The answer, my friend, is blowin' in the wind
The answer is blowin' in the wind

Yes, and how many years must a mountain exist
Before it is washed to the sea?
And how many years can some people exist
Before they're allowed to be free?
Yes, and how many times can a man turn his head
And pretend that he just doesn't see?

The answer, my friend, is blowin' in the wind
The answer is blowin' in the wind

Yes, and how many times must a man look up
Before he can see the sky?
And how many ears must one man have
Before he can hear people cry?
Yes, and how many deaths will it take 'til he knows
That too many people have died?

The answer, my friend, is blowin' in the wind
The answer is blowin' in the wind


Is Bob Dylan's "Series of Dreams" Poetry?

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