Many Lives Make Up Our Humanness

  

If our Life Story creates our identity, we must include the lives we have experienced and those we have lived. Author George R.R. Martin is credited with this quote: “A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies. The man who never reads lives only one.”

Another well-known author, Tony Hillerman, writing about the Navajo people and their traditions, said: “Everything is connected. The wing of the corn beetle affects the direction of the wind, the way the sand drifts, and the way the light reflects into the eye of a man beholding his reality. All are part of the total; in this totality, man finds his “hozro”, his way of walking in harmony, with beauty all around him.”

Learning more about others' human experiences can expand our own experience. To do so, we need to know about the characteristics, key events, and situations that compose the essentials of their lives: their struggles, conclusions, emotional responses, aspirations, and even their deaths.   

Authors are the gatekeepers to the lives they write about and provide us with the pathway to their knowledge and experiences.

Harold Bloom, a well-known author and professor of literature at Yale, has written many books about many of the best authors. His book "Shakespeare, The Invention of the Human” claims that Shakespeare's vocabulary of 22,000 words is so infinite that it proves he knew pretty much everything there is to tell about humankind. According to Bloom, that fact and the totality of his writing means that Shakespeare “invented the human,” or at least a more complete definition of humanness.

In an interview published in 1995, Bloom reflected on the great authors of the Western world, stating: “We must read and study Shakespeare, Dante, Chaucer, Cervantes, and the Bible, at least the King James Bible.” He said of these authors that “they provide an intellectual, I dare say, a spiritual value which has nothing to do with organized religion or the history of institutional belief.” They tell us things we couldn’t possibly know without them; they reform and make our minds stronger. They make us more vital."

Bloom defines humanness using the stories and writings of authors rather than his own life story, but for Bloom, the authors he studied are a part of him.

Shakespeare’s quotes reflect a deep understanding of humanness that resonates with our lives today. I like these quotes, among many others.

•        There is nothing good or bad; only thinking makes it so. - Hamlet

•        Hell is empty, and the devils are here. - Shakespeare

•        Though this may be madness, there is a method in it. - Shakespeare

•        All that glitters is not gold – Shakespeare

•        To thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man. – Shakespeare

The meaning of life is much more than our daily experiences and can include much from those other lives we read about.  For example, we learned things from Hyenseo Lee, who told us in her book, “The Girl with Seven Names, Escape from North Korea,” that I am glad I can have some awareness of without having to have had the personal experience myself. Much comes to us and can be experienced in the nonfiction accounts of other people.

Even fiction gives us insight into our humanness. The suspense and twisting plots of Lee Child's Jack Reacher series take us to places we would never go and into situations we would never find ourselves in. We find excitement, empathy, and emotional experience in fiction. Literary critics often label a piece of writing as literature rather than fiction if it tries to describe the "human condition."

Poetry can also challenge the status quo in our lives and, by doing so, improve the human condition of all people. An example of this is in the work of May Angelou, who fought for equality and humanity, writing about the plights and triumphs of marginalized people.

What we learn about others by reading becomes part of the real meaning of our own lives.

You have to see yourself correctly before you try to reinvent yourself

Answering the question, “Who are you?

Reinventing yourself requires you to learn from each new step you take. Looking back at your past from the present will show past actions in a new, more experienced light, and that which is how reinvention begins.

Examining past choices and the changes they brought about shows the reinvention process and suggests your next steps.

Which one of you are you trying to reinvent?

This photographer. Amin RK, captured the essesence of the reinvention problem. Where do do you start?

Intellectual Arrogance Can Blind an Otherwise Intelligent Person From Recognizing the Truth.

Intellectual arrogance is a set of characteristics that tends to blind an otherwise intelligent person from recognizing and learning the truth.

Intellectual humility is “the recognition that the things you believe in might be wrong,” A benefit of intellectual humility is the recognition that one's perspective will always be limited. This recognition leaves a person well-positioned to learn as much as possible from peers and subordinates.

Examples of intellectual humility

I question my opinions, positions, and viewpoints because they could be wrong. I reconsider my thoughts when presented with new evidence. I recognize the value in views that are different from my own. I accept that my beliefs and attitudes may be wrong. I am willing to learn from younger people with less experience, often referred to as reverse mentors. An example of this would be those who are technologically savvy or skilled in something new or different.

Intellectual Arrogance will hold you back

When you think you are better than anyone else, you won’t know what you don’t know because you won’t allow anyone to teach you.

In an Inc Magazine article: “Warren Buffett: Only 1 Thing Will Hold You Back From Achieving Great Things in Life.” he states that the one bad habit to pay close attention to is
”Intellectual Arrogance” and ignoring it becomes self-destructive in the long run, and doing something to rid yourself of it may hold you back.

The need to show people you think you're smarter than they are is one way to derail yourself from building solid relationships.

To counter the effects of intellectual arrogance, the most intelligent people stretch their knowledge by being open to soaking up philosophical wisdom or even just knowledge of the latest developments of others.

In other words, being clever without arrogance means acknowledging that you don't know everything. Then seek knowledge from those who may know more than you do.

Because, let's face it, if you're the most intelligent person in the room, you're in the wrong room.


Changing Your Future by Rewriting Your Past is Possible

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People think that only the future can be changed. Still, the future outcome of your actions is continually changing the past, according to a new theory that adds even more weirdness to the strange world of quantum mechanics. This theory says that when two particles interact, they become entangled on a sub-atomic quantum level and rid themselves of their probabilities. When you add the impact of future events to the last events, the effect of all the events themselves changes.

The past can and does change. It’s exquisitely sensitive and delicately balanced.” -Keiichiro Hirano, At the End of the Matinee.

This quote was used in Chris Guillebeau’s article: “CHANGE YOUR FUTURE TO REWRITE THE PAST.” The selection was taken from an article on his website, The Art of Non-Conformity.

The next time someone says, “You can’t change the past,” you’ll know better. You’re changing the past every day! The past changes on its own, merely through time and events outside your control, because your perspective of what happens changes. Your ongoing experiences affect your conclusions about the past. How you see past events is part of the narrative of your life. Your story determines your future, and how you know the story is your narrative.

This website is about self-improvement, self-development & reinventing ourselves. The theme of reinventing ourselves is in my books, essays, career development work, and most sections presented on this website. My passion is trying to improve daily and finding new ideas to help!