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"Connections and Why They Matter"
Most of what happens in our life will spark a connection. Life connects with what has been found in books. Books connect with what happens in life. Use the connections to help you see more clearly. A love of reading and writing is what motivated the creation of this blog. Thank you for coming to the blog.
For years, I wrote traditional self-help — the kind that offers steps, answers, and direction. But over time, I realized something important: self-help often pushes people because it presumes to know better. The real answers, at least for me, weren’t hiding in a framework or a formula. They were already there when I slowed down and focused on the questions. What I needed wasn’t more advice. I needed clarity — the ability to make a decision, choose a direction, and act. That shift opened the door to reflective nonfiction.
Reflective nonfiction is absolutely a real and recognized genre — though it often appears under nearby labels like literary nonfiction, creative nonfiction, or personal essays. What distinguishes it is its purpose: not to instruct, but to understand. Not to prescribe, but to illuminate.
Definition
Reflective nonfiction is writing grounded in real experiences, observations, or moments — but shaped by introspection, insight, and meaning-making. It’s not simply what happened. It’s what the experience revealed.
Writers in this genre explore:
Inner growth or change over time
Personal or philosophical insights
How meaning shifts as life unfolds
The emotional or moral resonance of real events
How small moments shape identity, belief, or perspective
Reflective nonfiction becomes a conversation between the moment itself and the meaning it holds — a way of understanding not just the world, but our place within it