You will know your intuition is there because you will feel it. Learn to trust your feelings. Look at your connections and let go of those that drain you. Reach our and make new connections. Find people who can help and inspire you. Sometimes more facts will change your view but trust your feelings
Be careful with your new hires in a startup. Talented people want to work with other talented people because they enjoy the inspiration and celebrating each other’s success. Seeking creativity is different from running from restrictions and rules. Build a team, don’t just fill positions.
Find a company and a boss that shares your core values
SOMEONE YOU KNOW KNOWS SOMEONE IN THAT GREAT COMPANY YOU WANT TO WORK FOR.
Six degrees of separation is the theory that any person on the planet can be connected to any other person on the planet through a chain of acquaintances that has no more than five intermediaries. Facebook says that it is really 4.74
“I don't trust people who don't love themselves and tell me, 'I love you.' ... There is an African saying which is: Be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt.” ― Maya Angelou
Trust in the Workplace is Vita - Brent Jones
"One light lights another and its light does not grow less" Share the flame. Help others succeed.
A squirrel goes through the winter finding his way to food each day using the same little trail. He has cover from onlookers but crosses a small break in the land where he jumps, without cover, from a rock on one side to the rock on the other side.
A hawk watches from above and notices that the squirrel takes the trail at the same time each morning. Even with brush covering the trail the hawk can see movement but at the small break he sees the squirrel exposed as he jumps.
Days pass. The squirrel’s habits do not change. The hawk watches. One day the hawk is ready and drops from the sky just in time to catch the squirrel in his mouth in midair as he leaps from the rock.
Daily routine keeps you busy but can be used against you. Stop and look up. What is different about today. Don’t let habits obscure needed actions.
Why do we strive to excel? Is it for our "self-image" or is it to give thanks for our abilities and to help others? In our search for excellence, perfection and accomplishment we can become trapped. C.S. Lewis said "Pride gets no pleasure out o having something only out of having more of it than the next man.... It is the comparison that makes you proud: the pleasure of being above the rest. Once the element of competition is gone, pride is gone.”
Get Clear Feedback on How Your Doing. Seeing ourselves clearly is often a problem. A Peanuts comic strip gave us a valuable solution years ago. We learned that "Your enemy tells you rotten things about yourself and makes you cry. Also we learned that your friends tell you rotten things about yourself and it makes you cry.
The difference, of course, is that your friends is sincere about the rotten things."
Listen closely to the feedback.
See Prior Posts in this section:
“I Read Your Book”
“Thoughts are Choices”
“The Heart has its Reason”
Erwin Rommel was a German general and military theorist A defining scene took place after Patton, played by George C. Scott, beat Rommel’s Tank Division. He had set a brilliant trap for the tanks and when the dust cleared after the battle was over, Patton was delighted with the victory and seemed to be talking directly to Rommel as he looked over the battle scene and yelled out joyfully. “Rommel I read your book”…………………….Study your competition!
by Brent M. Jones
C.S. Lewis said that "every time you make a choice you are turning the central part of you, the part that chooses, into something a little different from what it was before."
Lewis didn't just imply that the process creates us he suggested our conscious complicity in the process.
We are in the final analysis still left with our thoughts. The choices we make clearly reflect those thoughts and we either become better or worse as a result.
FYI, C.S. Lewis can be found in the Literary Favorite Section of this blog. Links to many of his books reviewed on the site can be found there.
“As You Look at Your Own Life Story You See Yourself Differently” is an essay that resonates with this message above from Lewis. Click to Link to Story
Blaise Pascal, perhaps thinking about the question of "Why" said: "The Heart has it's reason , that reason knows not of."
This opens another question: "Why" does the Heart have a reason?
Marvin Ashton offers an answer when he said: We learn to Love that which we serve, and we serve that which we love."
Sue Ann Monk Kidd was born in Sylvester, Georgia, and attended local schools and she graduated from Texas Christian University. Her first book, “The Secret Life of Bees” was set in the South and tells of her growing up being taught being taught that Catholic's were wrong and then finding her home with those who embraced much of Catholicism mixed with their own added tender feelings and emphasis.
Kidd’s book reminds me of some of the strong feelings for Catholic beliefs that William F. Buckley often included in his books.
Buckley’s book, “Nearer My God: An Autobiography” used the background of the world war and changing social mores for him to speak out about how his faith had sustained him. It was the softness of his words of appreciation for the rituals and teachings that reminded me of Kidd’s softness and tender approach to Lily’s feelings in her first book as she meet with the black neighbors and family to morn the loss of one of them.
Both Buckley and Kidd deliver an important message of tolerance. Seeing the love of the Lord expressed by others and accepting that it has beauty is the message.
Dean Koontz’s books on Jane Hawk and Lee Child’s books on Jack Reacher are examples of suspense thrillers that have done well as a series. Many of these are included in the regular review section.
I have gotten to know the Jack Reacher character by Lee Child and look forward to the next book. I was a little disappointed to find that Jane Hawk had not really let us know if her little boy was ok at the end of The Crooked Staircase. It does bother me that Jack Reacher seems to really care for some of the women he gets close to and then he just leaves, or they do.
I still see Stephen King and the real master of suspense thrillers, horror, fantasy, science fiction, and mystery. He does well without having the characters as part of a series.
Books in a series perhaps could include a “Series of similiar approaches such as below
Lisa Genova has written five very good books, Still Alice, Left Neglected, Love Anthony, Inside the O’Briens, and Every Note Played. Each of her novels are about people who have heartbreaking diseases and she brings her own background as a Neuroscientists to the stories that bring a compassionate look at these lives.
In the review section on this site there is a review of William Faulkners, As I Lay Dying. The review includes an interesting comment from one of Addie's five children, Vardaman, when he says after she dies, that he believes she is a fish.
When he said this Vardaman had recently caught a fish and then he had cut it up into little pieces; once it was cut up, it was no longer a fish. The comment he makes, “My Mother is a fish”, stands out as odd. We may ask ourselves why Faulkner had Vardaman say this?
Perhaps it is conciseness taken to a new level, cutting out unnecessary words while conveying an idea enhancing communication by eliminating redundancy? Was it meant to be profound, metaphorical or just show a very poor understanding of death? Maybe it was religious intending to show that mom was no longer in the box but fish would be soon?
So a fish was previously caught and it was a fish, and then it was cut up and it was not a fish. Or, as Vardaman sees it, and says it, it was a fish and now it’s a not-fish.
Addie was his mother, and then she was not his mother, the same as for the fish, she is a not-mother, so she must be a fish.
Lou Holtz was well known for his coaching technique, and success at Note Dame, has this statement associated with him:
“For the strength of the Pack is the Wolf, and the strength of the Wolf is the Pack.”
Such a great comment, it just defines teamwork. Maybe Coach Holtz is a poetry fan? More about this below.
The book, American Wolf, brings some deep insights into wolves and their life daily life in a pack where a strong leader is very important. Even though many associated this quote with Lou Holtz it was originally used by Rudyard Kipling in his poem................................
"NOW this is the Law of the Jungle — as old and as true as the sky; And the Wolf that shall keep it may prosper, but the Wolf that shall break it must die."
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Chinua Achebe is a Nigerian author who is best known for his book “Things Fall Apart”. That book as well as “Home and Exile” are reviewed on this site.
In Home and Exile Achebe tells us of an African Proverb that tells us that "until lions produce their own historians, the story will only glorify the hunter."
Achebe wants us to see that many writers portray Africa in ways that they think are expected, not having the right point of view. They have a dark and primitive point of view that strips much of the real beauty of the culture away.
This lesson applies to much of what we read of history. The American West has a viewpoint with many of the old writers that does the same thing to the culture of the American Indians.
Achebe's message is that Africa will be best served if African authors write about it.
We should consider whether our viewpoints as writers are factual or traditional.
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See the full review of this book, The Sun Also Rises by Ernest Hemingway in the Review Section
Of course this book is full of symbolism, beginning with the very title. Much of it just boils down to a writer obsessed with masculinity. That obsession takes us to bullfighting, which is itself symbolic of sexual seduction, when two beings face each other in a game of skill, where one wins and the other is really hurt or even killed with a sword. Sex seems to be a symbol of masculinity, rather than an object of it.
The story starts in Paris, which symbolizes romance, where Jake's lost love, Brett, meets with him. He tells her of a war wound that has left him impotent. Brett tells him she loves him and always will, but she rejects him because of his impotence. Jake gathers up some friends, also from the lost generation, and they go to Spain for the bullfights and other macho activities. Brett goes with them.
The chapters on bullfighting flip back and forth complimenting their fly fishing trip, drinking, sex other very masculine activities.
Hemingway's outlook seems to be summed up by two of his characters, Cohn and Jake, when they say, "I can't stand it to think my life is going so fast and I'm not really living it." "Nobody ever lives life all the way up except bull-fighters"