We have a choice in putting together the narrative of who we are and who we become. We can pick which of the events we connect with and what we conclude about them. to see and then weave and reweave them into our story. Narrative of who we are and who we become We can pick which events we connect with and what we conclude about them As my story changes with the retelling, it changes me.the narrative of who we are and who we become. We can pick which events we connect with and what we conclude about them to see and then weave and reweave them into our story. I become different because of how I seeknow the story.