Thoughts about Why Life Stories Change

Why Life Stories Change
Originally written in an earlier phase of this work

This page once contained early reader notes and developmental material from a previous stage of Why Life Stories Change. Over time, both the book and my thinking about it have evolved.

Today, I approach life stories less as narratives we actively reshape and more as interpretations that change quietly as we grow. The meaning we assign to past experiences often shifts—not because events change, but because perspective does.

If you’re interested in how this idea has developed, I explore it more fully in recent essays and reflections, including work published through my What Matters newsletter on Substack.