What Matters Most (and Why It’s So Easy to Forget)

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We don’t always notice the shift while it’s happening.

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One day, you're rushing through tasks, juggling priorities, and trying to be who the world expects you to be. And then, in a quiet moment—or maybe after something unexpected—you pause long enough to ask:

What really matters right now?

It’s a deceptively simple question. But it changes everything when we dare to answer it honestly.

That question is the heartbeat behind my latest book, What Matters: Reflections on Reinvention, Relationships, and Being Present in the Moment.

It’s short—just under 50 pages—but intentionally so. I wanted to write something that doesn’t add to the noise, but instead invites a pause. A reset. A reflection.

🌱 Why I Wrote This Book

Over the past few years, I’ve seen so many people (myself included) navigating transitions—career shifts, changing relationships, unexpected losses, fresh starts. And through it all, one thing kept coming back to me:

We spend so much time chasing success, but often forget to define what success really means to us.

What Matters explores how we can:

  • Reconnect with our values in a world that pulls us in every direction

  • Recognize the power of small, meaningful moments

  • Embrace change not as disruption, but as invitation

  • Let go of outdated stories we tell ourselves

  • Show up authentically in the relationships that count

📘 A Small Book for Big Questions

If you’re in a season of reflection…
If you're feeling disconnected from your purpose…
If you simply want to slow down and refocus—

This book was written with you in mind.

It’s now available as an ebook on Amazon, and I may release a print version soon for those who prefer something to hold, mark up, or give as a gift.

👉 Buy or preview What Matters on Amazon
https://www.amazon.com/What-Matters-Are-Small-Moments-ebook/dp/B0DWY2RTDV

Thanks for continuing to read and reflect with me here. Whether through books, posts, or quiet pauses, I believe we find clarity not all at once—but one honest question at a time.

Let me know what’s been on your mind lately.
Or better yet: What matters to you right now?

—Brent

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