How we react is more important that what happened (Now More Than Ever) →

Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it

You are wholly responsible for your own reactions. If you're angry and you start shouting, you've made that choice. If you say something cruel in the heat of the moment, you made that choice. If you get defensive when someone criticises you, you've made that choice. If what happens to you is bad and you find the good then, of course, you did that.