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Being and Time: What Heidegger Asks Us to Consider About Our Own Existence →

February 6, 2025 Brent Jones
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Martin Heidegger’s Being and Time, first published in 1927, is one of the most influential works of twentieth-century philosophy. It is also one of the most difficult books I have read.

At the center of the book is a question that sounds simple: What does it mean to be?

Heidegger believed that philosophy had spent centuries discussing the things that exist while giving too little attention to the meaning of existence itself. His approach begins not with an abstract definition of being, but with the particular kind of being that can ask questions about its own existence.

He calls this Dasein, often translated literally as “being-there.”

We Don't Simply Exist

One of the ideas I found most interesting is that human existence is not simply a matter of occupying space in the world.

We find ourselves already in a world filled with relationships, responsibilities, expectations, possibilities, and a past we did not entirely choose. We make decisions within that world, and those decisions help determine who we become.

But we can also lose ourselves in it.

It is easy to live according to what other people expect, what society considers normal, or what Heidegger describes as the anonymous influence of “the they.” We can go through life doing what one is supposed to do without asking whether those choices genuinely belong to us.

That is where Heidegger's discussion of authenticity becomes especially interesting.

Authenticity does not mean withdrawing from other people or simply “being yourself” in the way we commonly use that phrase. It involves recognizing that our lives are our own to live and that our choices cannot ultimately be made for us.

Time Changes the Question

The second half of the title matters just as much as the first.

For Heidegger, being and time cannot really be separated.

Human life is finite. We live with a past that has already shaped us, a present in which we must act, and a future filled with possibilities that will eventually come to an end.

Our awareness of mortality changes the meaning of our choices.

If our time were unlimited, choosing one possibility over another would carry far less weight. But it isn't unlimited. Every choice opens some possibilities and closes others.

This is one reason Heidegger's discussion of being-toward-death is so important. He is not simply asking us to think about dying. He is examining what awareness of our mortality means for the way we live.

What I Took From the Book

What stayed with me most was the connection between time, choice, self-awareness, and authenticity.

We inherit much of the world in which we live. We don't choose where our lives begin, many of the circumstances that shape us, or all the things that happen along the way.

But within those circumstances, we still confront possibilities and make choices.

And because our time is finite, those choices matter.

That makes Being and Time more than an abstract philosophical exercise for me. It raises a very personal question:

How much of the life I am living reflects choices I have consciously made, and how much simply reflects the life I fell into?

That is a question worth considering even if you never make it through all of Heidegger's book.

A note on reading it: Being and Time is challenging. Heidegger develops his own terminology, revisits ideas from different directions, and can take long philosophical detours. At times, I found some of his discussion reminiscent of religious questions about conscience, mortality, and how one ought to live, although his philosophical project is not based on belief in a deity

Related: Now Is Full of Then
Our experience of the present is never entirely separate from what came before. What happens to “now” when our connection to “then” begins to change?

see article > Now is full of then
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