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Are Your Attitudes a Mirror of Your Authentic Self? →

April 13, 2025 Brent Jones
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Are Your Attitudes a Mirror of Your Authentic Self?
By Brent M. Jones — April 13, 2025

Yes, your attitudes can reflect your authentic self. Attitudes—our learned predispositions to respond positively or negatively to people, ideas, and experiences—are often shaped by our values, beliefs, and lived experiences. When these attitudes align with your core self, they serve as expressions of authenticity.

Understanding that attitudes are both reactions to the world around us and reflections of our internal world can be incredibly empowering. They provide insight into your personal worldview, offering a snapshot of your values and emotional orientation. When expressed with awareness, your attitudes become a powerful tool for communicating who you really are.

Authenticity is the practice of being true to your inner self—and that includes acknowledging and expressing your attitudes honestly. But when your attitudes are out of sync with your core values, it can lead to cognitive dissonance—a state of internal discomfort that often signals a need for change. In these moments, you're faced with a choice: shift your attitude or adjust your behavior to restore internal harmony.

For example, if you genuinely value environmental responsibility, you're likely to have a strong, positive attitude toward sustainability and climate action. Likewise, if you find social media unfulfilling or intrusive, your negative attitude toward digital platforms may be an honest expression of your inner truth.

Examining your attitudes—especially those that feel conflicted or extreme—can become a powerful path to personal growth. Doing so helps you become more conscious of how you engage with the world and whether that engagement reflects who you really are.

Yes, social pressures often shape our attitudes. But staying grounded in your core values and beliefs—even when they challenge the norm—is the essence of living authentically. And that authenticity isn’t just about being “right”; it’s about being real.





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Why Gratitude Is at the Heart of a Positive Attitude →

May 18, 2023 Brent Jones
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Attitude and the Power of Gratitude

Attitude is an essential component of our lives, influencing our interactions with other people. It is the reflection of our emotions, beliefs, and behaviors, and it has a significant impact on our personal growth and happiness. A positive attitude is a powerful tool to help us overcome challenges, achieve our goals, and lead a fulfilling life. On the other hand, a negative attitude can hold us back, cause stress and anxiety, and limit our potential.

A positive attitude means having a mindset that looks for the good in every situation, regardless of how challenging it may be. One of the most effective ways to develop this outlook is by practicing gratitude. When we intentionally focus on the things we’re thankful for—whether it’s a supportive friend, a moment of peace, or even a small success—we reinforce a sense of possibility and hope. Gratitude shifts our perspective, helping us stay motivated and centered even when life becomes difficult.

A positive attitude also helps us build better relationships with others. When we lead with appreciation, we create space for empathy, kindness, and mutual respect. Gratitude encourages us to recognize the value others bring into our lives, making our interactions more meaningful and sincere. People are naturally drawn to those who radiate gratitude and optimism.

However, maintaining a positive attitude can be challenging, especially when faced with setbacks or uncertainty. It is important to remember that positivity is not about ignoring or denying negative emotions but acknowledging them and choosing to respond with intention. Gratitude can be especially powerful during these times. Even in hardship, taking a moment to reflect on what we still have—a lesson learned, a helping hand, or the strength to begin again—can offer a renewed sense of resilience. This practice, along with mindfulness, supportive relationships, or engaging in joyful activities, helps us navigate life with greater clarity and peace.

Our attitude plays a pivotal role in shaping our experiences and relationships with others. By cultivating a positive mindset grounded in gratitude, we can overcome obstacles, stay focused on what matters, and lead a more fulfilling and connected life. Maintaining this outlook takes effort and practice, but the benefits are worth it. So, let us strive to embrace positivity, give thanks daily, and spread kindness wherever we go.

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Stretching is an Attitude That Shows →

April 8, 2023 Brent Jones
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Stretching is a common practice to extend or lengthen something beyond its average length. Whether it's a physical act of stretching our muscles or a mental exercise of stretching our minds, we all understand the importance of pushing ourselves beyond our limits. By trying, we become more than before and open ourselves to new possibilities and experiences.

However, it's important to note that not all stretching is equal. While some types of stretching can be beneficial, others can do more harm than good. This is why selecting a worthy goal is essential when deciding to stretch ourselves. We need to be intentional about our stretching efforts and have a clear understanding of why we are doing it and what we hope to achieve.

When we stretch ourselves, we are trying to reach for something more than we already have. It's a natural human instinct to strive for more, achieve greater heights, and become the best version of ourselves. And life requires us to stretch ourselves to attain these goals. We can experience personal growth and development through our efforts to push ourselves.

However, stretching ourselves can also be a challenging and uncomfortable process. It requires us to step outside our comfort zones and face our fears and insecurities head-on. It can be a daunting and overwhelming task, but it's important to remember that the rewards are worth the effort.

As we progress in our journey of self-improvement and personal growth, we must continue to stretch ourselves to achieve our goals and aspirations. We need to stay focused and committed to our vision and be willing to put in the work required to make our dreams a reality.

In conclusion, stretching ourselves is an essential part of the human experience. It allows us to reach for something more than what we already have and to become the best version of ourselves. However, it's essential to approach stretching with intention and purpose and select goals worthy of our time and effort. Doing so allows us to experience personal growth and development and achieve the success and fulfillment we desire.

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How do Emotions and Feelings Affect Attitude: Are these Soft Skills? →

January 29, 2023 Brent Jones
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Research has shown that social skills and personality traits are key factors in emotional intelligence, and practicing emotional competencies can increase this valuable skill set.

Self-awareness is a critical skill when it comes to EQ (emotional intelligence). Practice recognizing your own emotions to become more self-aware.

Our feelings make up our emotions, can create immediate responses, and instantaneously affect our behavior. On the other hand, attitudes are more stable over time as they involve a cognitive process that considers emotions, feelings, beliefs, and behavioral intentions.

Research has shown that social skills and personality traits are key factors in emotional intelligence, and practicing emotional competencies can increase this valuable skill set. Self-awareness is a critical skill when it comes to EQ.

Practice recognizing your emotions to become more self-aware, as they involve a cognitive process that considers emotions, feelings, beliefs, and behavioral intentions.

Feelings and attitudes improve the ability to connect with self and others, leading to healthier and happier relationships. They also improve decision-making and the ability to solve problems. Increases resilience. Reduces stress.

Expressing feelings and emotions can help you to feel better about yourself and the situation. They determine our outlook on life based on the events occurring around us. They allow us to empathize with other humans and share joy or pain. Whichever emotion you feel on a morning generally shapes how you feel throughout your day.

Emotions – even those that feel unpleasant or seem negative – have a few essential uses: Emotions drive our actions – for example, a fight, flight or freeze response. Emotions tell others that we're dealing with stressors and may need support.

When emotions are expressed appropriately, senders can formulate a message that reflects their internal status and intentions while considering audience needs and perceptions. The audience also benefits by receiving a more transparent and easily understood message. Emotions affect communication in many ways.

Emotions can play an essential role in how you think and behave. For example, the emotions you feel each day can compel you to take action and influence the decisions you make about your life, both large and small.



The idea that emotional intelligence is an important soft skill is a focus in several of Author Brent M. Jones’s books.






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Attitude & Feelings Matter →

January 9, 2023 Brent Jones
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We've all encountered people with negative attitudes and have even experienced having a negative attitude ourselves. Our attitude encompasses our thoughts, emotions, and actions. Our conscious mind controls our feelings and ultimately determines whether we feel positively or negatively based on our chosen ideas.However, with awareness, we can recognize the impact of our attitudes on our behaviors and strive to improve them. Our attitudes, thoughts, emotions, and actions reflect our actions and behaviors.

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Recognizing the connection between our thoughts and emotions and how they influence our behavior is crucial. For example, suppressing feelings can lead to physical and mental stress. Therefore, it's not just essential but also a relief to allow ourselves to feel all emotions. Seeking input from others or researching sources can help aid our thought process.

It's crucial to remember that all human emotions, even those considered unfavorable, hold value. By acknowledging and accepting our feelings, we can use our thought processes to move forward, maintain a positive attitude, and make conscious choices.

The connection between our thoughts and emotions is crucial in shaping our actions and attitudes. Emotions, with their range of advantages and disadvantages, lead to highs and lows, with our responses to events being the result.

Suppressing emotions such as anger, sadness, grief, or frustration can lead to increased physical stress on the body. As a result, our minds may become fixated on the consequences and potential outcomes.

Sometimes, seeking input from friends or researching sources can aid the thought processes. This helps us gain new perspectives and makes us feel more connected and supported. However, it's important to remember that all human emotions hold value, even those that may be viewed as unfavorable. We should allow ourselves to feel all emotions and then use our thought processes to move forward. In conclusion, our attitude reflects our thoughts, feelings, and actions.

It is crucial to recognize the connection between our thoughts and emotions and how they influence our behavior. For example, suppressing emotions can lead to physical and mental stress, making it essential to allow ourselves to feel all emotions. Seeking input from others or researching sources can help aid our thought process.

However, it's important to remember that all human emotions hold value, even those that may be viewed as unfavorable. By acknowledging and accepting our feelings, we can use our thought processes to move forward and maintain a positive attitude.

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