Most of us move through life asking, Do I matter? But here’s the better question: Does your universe see you?
It does, every day, because we create it in the way we think, speak, and act. The deeper challenge isn’t whether the world notices us. It’s whether we truly see who we are becoming.
Both intellect and goodness have always inspired me.
In our lives, we meet people who stand out for one or the other — and occasionally those rare few who embody both. But when I reflect on the people who left the strongest impression, the answer surprises me.
More often than not, it isn’t brilliance that lingers. It’s goodness. Goodness doesn’t seek attention. It shows up quietly, in patience, kindness, listening, and integrity across everyday moments.
Intellect can dazzle. Insight can impress. But I’ve noticed that intelligence doesn’t always shape the whole of a person’s character in the same lasting way.
Some of the most intellectual people I’ve known were sharp in thought, yet uneven in how that wisdom appeared in daily life.
But the people defined by goodness seemed consistent, in both small choices and significant moments.
Intellect may shape what a person knows. Goodness shapes who a person becomes. One can be admired. The other is remembered.