Brent M. Jones - Connected Events Matter

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Positive Thinking is a Soft Skill

Soft skills involve interacting with colleagues, solving problems, and managing work. In contrast, emotional intelligence is the ability to understand and be aware of one's and others' emotions.

When you first consider the term “positive thinking,” it seems to be an attitude rather than a skill. A skill is an ability to do something well, suggesting expertise is part of it. Soft skills combine personal and social skills, character traits, and attitudes.

Positive Thinking is usually listed as a Soft Skill or People Skill needed to work effectively with others and succeed in the workplace.

An employer would be wise to look for Positive Thinkers in the interview process and value that skill as very important because those people tend to concentrate on solving issues rather than creating or worrying about them. When they face stress, they are more likely to deal with it positively and effectively.

Positive Thinking comes naturally to some, but skills can be learned and polished. This positive process can start by learning to analyze your thoughts and then taking deliberate action to make those thoughts effective.

Concentrating and trying to improve things, working effectively with others: Employers will value that skill, and having a positive attitude will help you reach your career goals. Because people are only sometimes taught to be positive, exhibiting this quality may give you an edge over the competition.

Soft Skills Still Matter

 

They matter because they are relevant, transferable, and keep an individual highly employable. Employers want people who already have soft skills because your employer doesn't have to train you on them, and the truth is they won’t do that good of a job on it anyway.

Soft skills are, in many ways, more important than hard skills. These skills enable people to collaborate better on projects, brainstorm and negotiate, gather support, and encourage others to participate.

Some personality traits can simplify one's ability to learn soft skills. Extroverts, for example, find it easier to learn communication and leadership skills.

Introverts often have many people skills that come naturally to them. For example, they may be good listeners, empathetic, and able to read others. They may also be more open to listening, resulting in solid connections.

Social skills can be taught. It is never too soon to start showing kids how to get along with others. Social skills can help students set goals for themselves and build positive relationships with peers.