Deciding to “Be Somebody” will require introspection to discover who you are. Just taking inventory and doing some severe pondering is a good starting point to find out what you are good at and not good at. Don’t confuse your point of view and conclusions with other people's expectations. Finding out who we are means asking ourselves what our values are, what truly matters to us, and then following the principles we believe in.

Build a list and add the things you are passionate about and the things you love to do. Ask someone you trust and respect for feedback on what you have put down. These are the first steps in knowing who you are, and learning what you want from life is itself part of what real success in life is. Knowing yourself will give you purpose, direction, and a true sense of well-being; that knowledge will change some of the things you do today.

Change anything about today, and you will change tomorrow and your life.

Change who you associate with. Surround yourself with people who will tell you the truth.